a thirty something living and working back in the US. Hosting visitors on their way somewhere else.
Tuesday, December 25
Saturday, December 22
M.I.A
Hopefully everyone is getting ready for Christmas!! If you are travelling, safe travels!!
I'll be back soon!
Thursday, December 13
WE'RE MOVING
James and I are moving to Atlanta, GA in January. James and his friend R are going into business together. Not sure what I will be doing yet as I am trying to work through some details with my current employer. I will post more details as they come along.
But, as we have finally let work know, I wanted to share with all of my readers the great news!!
So, look in the coming weeks for updates on house, job, move and life in general!!! (Oh, and I will change the blog name, but I haven't come up with a new name yet. If you have any ideas, please comment!)
YEA!! BACK TO THE US AND THE EASTERN TIME ZONE FOR US!
Friday, December 7
Background Color Change
German Christmas Markets
(oh, btw, Starbuck's exists in Germany, so I did have a very tasty vanilla latte after lunch! AHHH, so good!)
Wednesday, December 5
Sinterklaas
Today is Sinterklaas. Its a very interesting European tradition. Below is information from http://www.wikipedia.com/ 
The arrival of Sinterklaas and Zwarte Piet in towns all over the Netherlands generally involves some sort of parade and "official" arrival. Kids line the streets to get treats from the Zwarte Piets. In fact, they dress up like them. That's right, clothed in jester outfits and faces painted black. Now tell me, would this ever fly in the US? No, I don't think so. And in fact, as I read further on Wikipedia, I see that its even getting some attention here.
From about 1850, Pete was said to be an imported African servant of Saint Nicholas. Today however, a more politically correct explanation is given: Pete's face is said to be "black from soot" (as Pete has to climb down chimneys to deliver his gifts).
That's all for your history lesson, ladies and gentlemen. I just wanted to share a local tradition with you all!
May Sinterklaas bring you wonderful treats tonight!
Sunday, December 2
Sundays
Today - Netherlands
12/9 - Munich
12/16 - Dallas, TX
12/23 - Columbus, OH
12/30 - Venasque France
1/6 - Netherlands
Guess we are going to have a busy December!! So, in light of that, we are going to relax today, watch some movies and I am going to bake Christmas sugar cookies (but not until this load of laundry is done, because as you may recall, I can only use 1 major appliance at a time).
Happy Sunday!
Decorating
This is our dining room table set with decorative plates. The second picture is a close up. I can't wait to use our china on with the set up, I think it will look fantastic!
This is our mantle. We have snowflake stocking holders, red and white stockings, a snowman, and the poinsettia plate.
Yes there is a theme....I really like red, silver and white for decorating at Christmastime. We're getting in the spirit and counting down the days to visit friends and family for the holidays!
Thursday, November 29
Candy Canes and Christmas Carols
Hope all your holiday planning is going well. I have only bought 2 Christmas presents and have several more to get....I better get busy!!
(pictures of the decorated apartment to come before the end of the weekend!)
Sunday, November 25
Thankful
1 - my husband and being able to call him that!
2 - my friends and family even though most are a thousand miles away (or more like 5000)
3 - having an expat community in which to share traditional American holidays
4 - being able to see and go most places we want
5 - this blog for being able to share our expat life with above mentioned friends and family.
HAPPY THANKSGIVING ALL! WE MISS YOU!
(see I promised I was thankful!)
Wednesday, November 21
GRRR - Blogging Frustrations
But, it'll be there soon for you to read. Enjoy!!
Weekend in Champagne (France, not IL)
We tasted about 4 different champagnes here. I didn't know there were so many different types. Generally, champagnes are not given vintages, but are blend from various harvests. You won't see dates on these bottles. However, if its a good year, they will create a vintage and you will see dates on the bottle. These bottles typically go for more. This is were we consumed the most and bought the most!
Driving from Henriet-Bazen (which was in a very small town) to Ruinart for our tour. Ruinart is located in Reims, which is the largest city in the region. The countryside was beautiful with the colors of fall. (the pictures are a bit blurry as they were taken from the backseat of a moving vehicle)
A wall of champagne bottles aging at Ruinart (the picture is kind of dark, so you don't see me very well). I believe there are 3000+ bottles there.
Displays of Aging Champagne. The lighting looks cool on this picture.
This picture is in the tasting area. The bar is similar to the aging displays we saw in the caves. The Photographer (James) got a good shot through the glasses to the bar.
This is James with Lieven and Martin. They met while working Brussels.
Tasting at the small champagne house. This was very informal and cozy.
The group after dinner. Dinner was good, but LONG. It took 4 hours for dinner. I think by the time we left, we were all ready to go to sleep! It was a fun day, but long and exhausting!
Tuesday, November 20
Not feeling so Thankful
Maybe tomorrow or Thursday I will post what I am thankful for because I am, really, I promise, thankful.
Monday, November 19
BLACK
Jessi, your true color is Black!
Your color is black. The color of night. Serene and mysterious, black conjures up images of elegant evening gowns, dashing tuxedos, and gleaming limousines. Traditionally a symbol of success, black also represents power and an uncompromising demand for perfection. Not surprisingly, you tend to set challenging goals for yourself and do whatever it takes to achieve them — your strength of character is second to none. This unfaltering determination, along with your natural elegance, impresses people. But keep in mind that your personality might be intimidating to some. Try to temper your demanding side with a little softness — trust us, it won't kill you. Overall, though, black is the color of professionalism and achievement, which means it's clearly the color for you.
http://web.tickle.com/color/index.jsp?testname=colorogt&resultid=F
Friday, November 16
3 Years
Corny, I know, but today is 3 years of knowing each other. From a simple lunch at Atlanta Bread Company to being 3 days away from our 6 month wedding anniversary, oh the fun we've had! (Its fun to celebrate twice a year....knowing each other and the official wedding anniversary!)
Here's to many more to come!
Love you!
(and because I was reminiscing and found old pictures, I have thrown one in of Barley right after we got him. He's about 8 weeks old.)
GO BLUE, GO RED

An no, not that red (Georgia Red), this RED (OSU Scarlet)

Two Big Games this weekend!!! We will be able to watch the OSU v. UM game because it is on the NASN (North American Sports Network) that is part of our cable package here!! Finally, we can "tailgate" and watch a game!
Whatever your favorite team, enjoy a great weekend of college football!
Go CATS!
GO BUCKEYES!!
Thursday, November 15
SUNNY
Just wanted to share in the sunshine!
Wednesday, November 14
A bit late
Friday, November 9
Demand a Dream Life
"Women who live the life of their dreams don't get there by being dainty and darling. They demand what they want and do what it takes to make it happen. [That] could mean breaking a few rules, a few hearts and a few habits along the way." Laurie Sue Brockway (A Goddess is a Girl's Best Friend)
With this I will be inspired and stop selling myself short!
Wednesday, November 7
Dark, Rain, Traffic
So, fortunately this year, I will have a gym to go to and weather will not be an excuse for not working out. And maybe because I know what to expect with the winter, I won't experience any symptoms of S.A.D (see previous posts). But, I am not holding my breath as the first symptoms have already arrived...sleeping long periods of time. I do NOT want to get up in the mornings when it is still dark and my bed is so comfy.....
So, my goal for the rest of the week is to find some inspiration, or at least something to prevent full onset of S.A.D.....Any Ideas??
Sunday, November 4
October
The first week was still pretty busy at work given the Go Live, but was more manageable than the week before. Friday evening we picked up Bambi, Marianne, Sallie and Rachel from the train station. Rachel is student teaching in Germany and the Aunts came over to visit. Once we all got back to the apartment, we chatted for a bit and went to bed (it had been an extremely long day for the ladies!!) On Saturday, I took them to Delft as it is the epitomy of a Dutch town. That evening we went to our favorite little Italian restaurant here in Wassenaar. (Its our favorite not only because of the good food, but it is also walking distance, so you can enjoy your wine with dinner - and we did!!). We had dessert once we got home after dinner. I finally went into the bakery downstairs with them and we bought some little pastries....yummmmm...good thing I didn't discover the backery earlier!! On Sunday we took them back to the train station and made our way to the airport. Back to the US for us. We spent Sunday night - Thursday morning in Lexington. We took care of the house, got hair cuts and massages and vistied with family. Then boarded a plane for Atlanta. We enjoyed a great weekend with Ricky and Lisa. We celebrated my birthday on Friday at a great steak restaurant. (Although I probably won't be returning as I had one too many drinks - it was the Jager I swear). On Saturday we went to a Halloween party. Yes, I dressed up, evidence is below!!! Sunday and Monday were spent relaxing! We did do a little shopping in the meantime.
We arrived back to NL on Tuesday morning and went to work. On Saturday morning (EARLY) we flew to Spain for the Sales & Distributor meeting. I think every child in NL was on that plane with us....the kids were everywhere and definitely misbehaving. I am not sure the parents cared at all what the kids were doing. It was AWFUL... But Spain was nice. We had Sat and Sun to relax before everyone got there. The weather was fantastic. Though it was a long week of meetings, it ended with a 2 hour break laying in the sun on Friday!! Not a bad way to end the trip......And we finished the month off in NL.
Yes, October came and went.....but we sure had some fun!!
James and Jessi in the Lederhosen (aren't they cute ?!?!)
September - Month 12
We had a great dinner at Il Gatto Nero (the Black Cat) which is a favorite of G Clooney (or at least that is what we were told), but there were no celebrity sightings that night. Dinner of truffles and steak was fantastic. Saturday we spent the day (and a bit of money) in Milan. After wandering aimlessly for about 2 hours, we finally found the street we were trying to find, but only after James walked into the Park Hyatt like we were staying there and talked to the Concierge. Sunday, we spent wandering around Como. The weather was fantastic, as you can tell in the photos. And that evening, I returned home to NL while James stayed behind for training.
Milan and Como Pictures use link below....
http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=8gkpuuo.1kw5v09k&x=1&y=-rzlfq3
The month ended with a crazy weekend at work. We implemented SAP in Europe and went live on Oct 1. After 6 months of hard work, the results were great!!
And that's the first year.....WOW....what a great year! Hope you've enjoyed the journey. I will keep posting updates. But am glad to be caught up!!
Friday, November 2
Flying by
Hope everyone enjoyed their Halloween. Not tricks or treats here as it is not celebrated heavily in Holland (except expat neighborhoods, but we weren't visited). But, look for the October update as james and i did celebrate Halloween in Atlanta!
August - Month 11
(Not sure I have ever mentioned, but our Home Away From Home is a short 4 KM from the beach! Though the North Sea is not one you just go swimming in, its a bit cold!)
The rest of the month was fairly uneventful. Work was busy as we were gearing up for go live. Most of the data objects had been loaded or were being loaded during the month. We did have a visit from a US friend. (Hi Bobbi) And found a restaurant in Den Haag that actually served decent Mexican food (that is generally stop numero uno upon arrival in the US for us).
We ended the month and began September with a trip to Prague...It is one of the most beautiful European Cities. The architecture is amazing, food was great and the city is rich in history. We walked all over the town, so my legs were tired by the end of the trip, but it was a fantastic trip. We stayed at the Hilton using points and were upgraded to the executive level, so enjoyed free breakfast and afternoon cocktails. I could go on and on about the city, but I will let the pictures do the talking....WHAT A BEAUTIFUL PLACE (and my amateur photog husband took some fantastic pictures)
http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=8gkpuuo.bk7e3wvk&x=0&y=-58ncfx
July - Month10
We started the month by celebrating 4th of July in style at Jack and Kathy's, hamburgers, broccoli casserole, the works. I even whipped up some rice krispie squares (I forgot how much I love them). The food and friends were present, however the fireworks and summer temperatures were not. In fact, it rained off and on all day. AND we actually had to go to work for most of the day. (Guess Holland isn't interested in celebrating USA's independence ;))
Later in the month we took a weekend trip to Ireland. We spent 4 days with Hugo and Daphne at Daphne's parents. While the weather was cool, we didn't have much rain. We took amazing drives (although a bit nausea enducing) along the coast of Northern Ireland. It really was beautiful. We also hit an Irish Pub in Dublin and enjoyed some Guinness....And what would a trip to Ireland be without some Irish Whiskey...we enjoyed a great tour and tasting!! (Hot toddy's are about all the irish whiskey I want, but James sure does enjoy his tastings!!!) See link below for pictures from this great trip!
http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=8gkpuuo.afhm78jk&x=1&y=-628x4k
Tuesday, October 16
June - Month 9
May - Month 8 - Honeymoon
After what might have been the best wedding in history (yes, I am biased, but it WAS everything I could have imagined), James and I set off for the best honeymoon in history. We went to Mauritius. Where is Mauritius you ask? It is off the coast of Madagascar in the Indian Ocean. Why Mauritius you ask? When else would we actually make it to that part of the world? We flew back to our home away from home and spent 24 hours unpacking and repacking. The flight from Paris to Mauritius was 13 hours...yes it was a long one. But thanks to Skymiles we were sitting in First Class! (that was nice). We split our 10 day trip into 5 nights at 2 resorts. We stayed at the Oberoi Mauritius (http://www.oberoi-mauritius.com/index.asp?leftinfo=1&leftitem=1). It was fantastic. We were greeted at the welcome center and escorted directly to our room, which was fantastic. We had great dinners and enjoyed the pools and beaches. After the Oberoi, we went to the One and Only Le Toussrok. (in the middle of our stay it changed hands and is now just Le Toussrok - http://www.letouessrokresort.com/) It was absolutely fantastic as well. We enjoyed great food, some snorkeling and time on their private island. The resorts were so different, its hard to say one was better than the other. All in all it was a fantastic trip!! See favorite photos below:
http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=8gkpuuo.3rrn172s&x=1&y=-4ltam5
Monday, October 1
ONE YEAR
As I have been updating this blog and remembering the last year, it is amazing how much we have packed into the year....getting married being the best and most exciting thing that happened!! Its been one heck of a year (read posts below) and actually feels like it has flown by. We have gotten used to Holland life, but still not used to being away from our family and friends. I feel like I am missing out on so much, bridal and baby showers, baby births, and the trials and tribulations of my friends' pregnancies (yes I can count on 2 hands the number of friends pregnant or who just recently had babies). But, we have seen so much and have many memories of our first year in Europe.
I hope you are enjoying my update posts and regular musings on life....stay tuned more to come!
See Posts Below
Sorry for the delay. Work is crazy and we had cutover weekend this past weekend. Stayed in the hotel close to the office so looking forward to going to our house tonight....am trying my best to get caught up!!
Friday, September 21
Perks

Enjoy your weekend!
Tuesday, September 18
FALL
In the spirit of the weather changing, we switched our wardrobes. I am not sure how much use our summer wardrobes got this year as we probably had only a hand full of days that were actually above 80 degrees. No need for cute sundresses this year! (just for the honeymoon of course)
And in the spirit of changing wardrobes.....am I so ready to shop for fall clothes. I did my best to create a good will pile (we'll be bringing it back whenever that is), but I think I could clean out some more if I knew I could do some shopping....hmm, I do have a birthday coming up (hint, hint) and the wares at Banana Republic and JCrew are looking pretty good!
Miss you all and hope you are enjoying your September....tailgates and such (even if the weather isn't changing yet)
Saturday, September 15
apologies
Miss you all!
Saturday, September 8
October - Month 1
The weekend we got back from training, we had dinner at the Jack and Kathy's. A bunch of the US Valvoline Expats got together....it was a fun evening. We owe a lot of our adjustment to Jack and Kathy - thanks to them we had a place to store things and use internet so James could attend class.
In our second and third weeks here we went house hunting with our expat integration consultant. Some of the photos are below ....

And after viewing about 18 different places, we came back to the first place we saw.......(see next post)
Our Home Away From Home
This is the outside view....our landlords have an office for the business on the ground floor (US first floor, though here its ground, first, second)
This is the kitchen area. Pretty small, but we are lucky with the cabinet space
The living/dining room area. This is the living room side.....
And this is the dining room side.....
This is the master bedroom area
Friday, September 7
November - Month 2
Back in Holland, we got the keys to our apartment on November 15...I was away for a training so James spent the first night there alone....and from what I hear it was a little cold! We brought our blow up mattress and a set of sheets and towels from the US in our luggage. That first weekend we got as organized as we could without our shipment....we borrowed a card table and chairs, tailgate chairs and dishes from Jack and Kathy. We went to the Media Mart (like a Best Buy) and bought a TV, DVD player (enabled for region free as different DVDs are not universal....and to watch DVDs from different areas of the world, you need your player to be region free), and microwave. I bought us a skillet and spatula. At least we could cook in one skillet and eat on borrowed plates!! We called it camping....but it got a little old.
Thanksgiving was our first real holiday away from home. Our friends hosted Thanksgiving dinner and each family brought a dish. It was as close to a family gathering as you can get when you are 6000 miles from home. I went to a church service in the morning in Leiden (there were pilgrims in Leiden, too) and then we had dinner. James was still in school so he did school work while I went to the service. Friday, it was back to work for us as it is not a National Shopping Day like in the US.
Those are the highlights for November.....
December - Month 3
I did get to take a trip to Germany this month. James is the German sales manager and had a Christmas dinner for his team in Hamburg. Really nice city. We did a dinner cruise with a folk theme on Friday night and went to the Christmas market and toured the city on Saturday with James' boss George and his wife, Jill. Some pictures are posted below.......
December - USA
My wonderful fiance (at the time) was about to celebrate his 30th birthday and I couldn't let that pass without some fune including friends and family. So I organized, with the help of Bobbi and Leigh, a surprise party. Thanks to Adam dragging James to the movies we were able to pull it off without a hitch! Thank you to everyone who helped organize and pull it off (Mom, Dad and Emily even came to Lex for the party). Pictures below.
Christmas was fun this year. We had dinner with Jim, Ali, Adam, Brooke and Jon at Guiseppe's. It was very good. For Christmas Eve, we spent the day in Lawrenceburg and Harrodsburg visiting James' dad's side of the family and then the evening at Anne's house. Waking early on Christmas morning, James and I exchanged our gifts and headed to Xenia (not without a stop at Starbuck's first. This is a great tradition...starbucks christmas morning!!) We hung out in Ohio for several days and then headed back to Lex for New Years!
Adam, Brooke, Jim and James
Emily, James and I
James and I flew back to Amsterdam on the 2nd...
January - Month 4
http://www.fifteen.net/Pages/default.aspx
Anyway, James and I enjoyed a wonderful birthday dinner. That weekend our friends Hugo and Daphne came to visit, well, actually they came to work. They helped us get organized....shew it was a lot of work for the weekend and I know we didn't get it all done. To celebrate James' birthday yet again (yes, 3 celebrations for the big 3-0) we went to an Italian restaurant - Impera Romano - in The Hague. It was a fantastic dinner (best steaks we've had) shared with great friends.
We made several trips to IKEA....let me tell you that is an experience. The place is always crawling with people and its pretty much help yourself...as is assembly. Picture instructions.
I can't remember what else we did in January other than to get our house set up properly. Photos to come as I have yet to take them (sorry).
February - Month 5
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seasonal_affective_disorder
I am not sure I ever believed that such a thing exists. Well, let me tell you I am a true believer now. The winter months in Holland are not fun. Sun is up from about 8:30 to 4:30 and as a working woman, that means I didn't get to see much of it. In addition to the dark, it was rainy and windy most days. With James travelling most days, I would come home from work (usually after a drive of about 1-1.5 hours because of traffic), maybe run 30-40 depending on weather, eat dinner and be in bed by 8. That was my first symptom........
Speaking of traffic, let me just tell you I will never complain about drivers/traffic in Lexington again. This place is crazy. First, Holland is densely populated in certain areas. Second, there are 4 cities where work is concentrated. Third, these cities are all within about 60 miles of each other....Let's just say the roads are busy. In order to beat traffic, we would have to leave home by 7. To beat traffic in the evening, you either left right at 5 or wait until after 6 to head home. For some reason, the time in the car doesn't bother me as much as I thought. It's annoying, but I use it as wake up time or decompression time.....
Sorry for no pictures this month...
March - Month 6
James and I headed to the US for 10 days to celebrate our upcoming marriage by having our bachelor and bachelorette parties. Mine was in Cincinnati on St Patrick's Day. It was a great night. We started with dinner at Palomino's (yum). Then went on to an Irish bar, of course! Nothing too wild (except the guy dancing for us....I think those around us were WAY more drunk than we were). I don't have any pictures to post, I was having too much fun to take pictures and I haven't gotten any from anyone else. I spent the rest of the week working....I had just been assigned to my new role as Data Coordinator for our SAP implementation (Oct 1).
James had his party in Las Vegas. From what I hear they had a great time. Not sure how we swung a 4 day trip out of it, but don't worry girls...I'll get a girl trip sometime soon!
I also had a shower while I was home....it was hosted by Cher, Tara and Jayme and it was perfect. Thank you all so much!!! Mom and Emily came down for the shower. We also had my dress fitted and went shopping. It was a nice girls weekend while James was away.
Sorry for no pictures this month!! Stay posted the fun is coming!
April - Month 7 (post 1)
The drive home was quite fun and interesting....It was an 11 hour drive and i agreed to drive for part of the time....well, James pulled over to a typical French reststop for us to switch drivers. Well let me just tell you about the toilets....its a porcelain hole in the ground with two foot rests and no rubber to keep from slipping...that's right, its glorified squatting....NEVER AGAIN FOR ME!!
View from Caroline's to Venasque
